The Style of a Gentleman
April 29th, 2011 | 
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The term “gentleman” now gives us an image of any male but many years ago it meant something quite different. To be called a true gentleman was a compliment back in the days of corsets and carriages. A gentleman was seen as someone who was regarded highly by those around him. He would have worn the smartest clothes and had the most charming personality. Gentlemen were often perceived in the movies as the hero or the guy that gets the girl. They had an image of the perfect man who appealed to women as partners and men as role models. But how do we see them now? Some people still regard being called a gentleman a compliment although these days it is used much more broadly. So what is the style of a gentleman? And how can this be achieved in modern times?
With gentlemen having a sophisticated image to hold up it is only obvious that they are to wear suits. A suit doesn’t just have to be for a special occasion. A suit can be for everyday and will certainly make you look the professional in the work place. Gentlemen will not only wear a suit but all the stylish accessories to go with it. These accessories give us a clue as to what sort of gentleman he is. A money clip will say he’s a well off gent, a pair of cufflinks will say he’s a traditional gent. Matching his tie with his cufflinks? Well that is a sign of a gent with impeccable taste! Gentlemen should have a well thought out wardrobe and will make the effort everyday to create a stylish and sophisticated outfit.
But of course it’s not all about the clothes. A true gentleman must act like one in true gentleman style. One of the key parts of acting like a gentleman is to be kind and courteous to others. Not just your friends and family but work colleagues as well. Be chivalrous and try to please those around you. I don’t mean go out of your way to make someone happy but be considerate. For example if you are popping out for a sandwich, why not ask anyone else if they need anything while you’re out. Also you should be respectful of women and other people. Try not to rush in or be the first in line. Slow and steady wins the race after all. Stand when a woman leaves the table and always offer them your umbrella or coat if it’s raining. These little things such as removing your hat when you enter a building or a room will set you apart from other men and make you stand out. People rarely remember an average Joe who they meet in a shop but they will remember the gentleman who helped with their bags and held open the door.
So in order to have the style of a gentleman you must look and act like one. Only then can you officially be called a true gent.
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